Learning to Understand Women

"Do you love me?"

Published by Anil Kumar under on 12:17 AM


For any man who has ever been in a relationship, there's a question their female partner keeps asking every once in a while. The question is "Do you love me?" Why do women ask this question even if they're 100% sure the man loves them? In some societies where marriage is permanent (that is, divorce rate is close to zero), married women will ask their husband "Do you love me?" even if they know that the man is bound with them like superglue and can't run away even if he wants to.

The answer is: Women keep asking the question "Do you love me?" to their men because they want verbal reassurance from them. In fact, a gentleman should always respond with "Yes honey, I love you very much" followed by a hug and a kiss.

Summary: Expect your girl to keep asking "Do you love me" every once in a while. A gentleman should respond to this question with "Yes honey, I love you very much" followed by a hug and a kiss.

When not to be funny

Published by Anil Kumar under , , on 12:08 PM


That girls like to have fun is a universal truth. "Girls just wanna have fun." They like funny guys, obviously. However, there are some situations when the man should not be expressively funny. One of them is when meeting new people. Let's take an example here:

Your girls' best friend is coming over for a couple of days. As soon as she arrives, you start being extra funny. This will not be liked by either of those.

Summary: Women like funny men. But the man should remember not to make the situation very funny with new people.

Silence please!

Published by Mohican yells under on 5:07 AM

It has always been told that a good communication is essential for a good relationship........I 100% agree with this notion. But human brain (and hence life) is so complex, that we can't define what to do/what not to do with predetermined rules.............Exceptions and variations are always there.
That's why in some occasions it is better to keep silent, than to take initiatives for a conversation.
Sometimes during argument, we speak something really nasty an unacceptable things...The other person is so hurt that he/she prefers not to speak and to keep silent for a while and avoid the argument. All of a sudden you realize "God! What I have done?"......You know that you were wrong and you have crossed the limits...........In especial situation like this, it is better to keep silent for a while, rather than trying to start a conversation for explanations........small time separation gives you time to cool down your head, you start thinking clearly and you are somewhat over from the sever grief that you had received from your partner's acidulous remarks.

Summary: Always try to sort out problems with healthy conversations, yet one should 'know' some special occasions when he/she rather keep silent.

Do women like men who are flexible or rigid in character?

Published by Anil Kumar under on 8:53 PM


Do ladies like flexible men, or men who never deviate from their principles?

Answer is: Both.

Women like men who are flexible in their approach, are able to accept others' point of view with ease, and can change their direction if they feel it's right. For example, a woman argues in support of her decision to go for a job in another state, and the man accepts it after carefully weighing the pros and cons.

However, women like their man to have reasonably stable principles, and the man should never deviate from his basic principles. For example, there is a man who always have spoken the truth to his wife. After many years of marriage, there emerges a situation in which it is painful for the man to speak out the truth. In such a case, the women will most likely admire the strong character of the man if he sticks to his principle of speaking the truth.

Summary: Women like men who are flexible in their approach and open to ideas, but are determined at their basic principles.

How was your day??

Published by Mohican yells under on 6:23 AM


"How was your day"?...........Small sentence, but with big impact. Women always want their spouse/boyfriend to care for them and to understand their problems. In modern society, partners have very little time to share together. After long hours of separation in a working day, when a guy asks his gal "How was your day"?, that creates magic. (This doesn't work as dramatically for guys though, because they would rather love to jump on to their play-station console after a heavy days work........lol)

Summary: To profess that you care for your loving partner, always ask "How was your day"?, small sentence, but with big impact.

Why do some women like ugly men?

Published by Anil Kumar under , , on 10:35 AM


Handsome men are naturally liked by women.

But why do some women like ugly men? John Travolta for example?

I asked a woman this question, and she gave me this answer:

"If a man looks ugly (like rough skin, pockmarks on face, scars on hands, etc.), women think that he has faced a lot of hardships in his life, and he's strong enough to have survived all that. Because he's strong, he will be able to provide and protect me well"

Summary: Ugliness is a handsomeness of its own kind, because it's seen by some women as a sign of strength and endurance.

The power of touch

Published by Anil Kumar under on 9:30 AM


When a man touches a woman on the arm, it's seen by the woman as a feature of dominance, and it's attractive to them. For more conservative cultures where social touch between opposite sexes is prohibited, women may view touch negatively though, particularly in public.

Summary: If you want her phone number, touch her lightly on her arm.

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