A team of specialists from State University of New York conducted a study to ascertain the perceptions of men and women during the act of kissing. Their observations are:

Women place more emphasis on kissing than men. Women use kissing as a method of:

1. Judging their potential partner
2. Later, to maintain intimacy
3. To check the status of a relationship

For men, kissing means increasing the likelihood of sex. Further, the study revealed men are less discriminating regarding whom to kiss. A man becomes less and less likely to kiss his female partner as the relation progresses. But for a woman, kissing is important throughout.

One of the specialists commented: "But the fact is women are more discriminatory than men. Men can just go out and spread their seed, but women have to take more responsibility because of the consequences and so they are likely to want to test more."

Summary: Women perceive kissing as a method of "testing" as well as "bonding" to their partner, whereas for men it's another step towards sex.

She does something you don't like. For example, she keeps mentioning her ex when she's in bed with you. You feel awkward, but say nothing because if you say something, you're afraid you'll make the situation even more awkward. How to let her know that you don't like this?

The natural response to this question will vary from person to person, but there is a "common pathway" that will work for most people.

That is: If you want to say something that you don't like about your partner, don't do it in the bed, don't do it during a busy day. You have to find a time when both of you are reasonably comfortable in your own privacy, and have enough energy to discuss something unpleasant.

A very common mistake is to just not say anything and wait for too long, and then burst open all of a sudden. Therefore it's important to let her know as soon as the situation is comfortable, because you have to be sure she's listening.

Summary: If there is a disagreement, you have to let your partner know at a comfortable time. Don't wait too long or the pressure will build up within, and it may burst open suddenly.

For any man who has ever been in a relationship, there's a question their female partner keeps asking every once in a while. The question is "Do you love me?" Why do women ask this question even if they're 100% sure the man loves them? In some societies where marriage is permanent (that is, divorce rate is close to zero), married women will ask their husband "Do you love me?" even if they know that the man is bound with them like superglue and can't run away even if he wants to.

The answer is: Women keep asking the question "Do you love me?" to their men because they want verbal reassurance from them. In fact, a gentleman should always respond with "Yes honey, I love you very much" followed by a hug and a kiss.

Summary: Expect your girl to keep asking "Do you love me" every once in a while. A gentleman should respond to this question with "Yes honey, I love you very much" followed by a hug and a kiss.

That girls like to have fun is a universal truth. "Girls just wanna have fun." They like funny guys, obviously. However, there are some situations when the man should not be expressively funny. One of them is when meeting new people. Let's take an example here:

Your girls' best friend is coming over for a couple of days. As soon as she arrives, you start being extra funny. This will not be liked by either of those.

Summary: Women like funny men. But the man should remember not to make the situation very funny with new people.

It has always been told that a good communication is essential for a good relationship........I 100% agree with this notion. But human brain (and hence life) is so complex, that we can't define what to do/what not to do with predetermined rules.............Exceptions and variations are always there.
That's why in some occasions it is better to keep silent, than to take initiatives for a conversation.
Sometimes during argument, we speak something really nasty an unacceptable things...The other person is so hurt that he/she prefers not to speak and to keep silent for a while and avoid the argument. All of a sudden you realize "God! What I have done?"......You know that you were wrong and you have crossed the limits...........In especial situation like this, it is better to keep silent for a while, rather than trying to start a conversation for explanations........small time separation gives you time to cool down your head, you start thinking clearly and you are somewhat over from the sever grief that you had received from your partner's acidulous remarks.

Summary: Always try to sort out problems with healthy conversations, yet one should 'know' some special occasions when he/she rather keep silent.

Do ladies like flexible men, or men who never deviate from their principles?

Answer is: Both.

Women like men who are flexible in their approach, are able to accept others' point of view with ease, and can change their direction if they feel it's right. For example, a woman argues in support of her decision to go for a job in another state, and the man accepts it after carefully weighing the pros and cons.

However, women like their man to have reasonably stable principles, and the man should never deviate from his basic principles. For example, there is a man who always have spoken the truth to his wife. After many years of marriage, there emerges a situation in which it is painful for the man to speak out the truth. In such a case, the women will most likely admire the strong character of the man if he sticks to his principle of speaking the truth.

Summary: Women like men who are flexible in their approach and open to ideas, but are determined at their basic principles.

"How was your day"?...........Small sentence, but with big impact. Women always want their spouse/boyfriend to care for them and to understand their problems. In modern society, partners have very little time to share together. After long hours of separation in a working day, when a guy asks his gal "How was your day"?, that creates magic. (This doesn't work as dramatically for guys though, because they would rather love to jump on to their play-station console after a heavy days work........lol)

Summary: To profess that you care for your loving partner, always ask "How was your day"?, small sentence, but with big impact.

Handsome men are naturally liked by women.

But why do some women like ugly men? John Travolta for example?

I asked a woman this question, and she gave me this answer:

"If a man looks ugly (like rough skin, pockmarks on face, scars on hands, etc.), women think that he has faced a lot of hardships in his life, and he's strong enough to have survived all that. Because he's strong, he will be able to provide and protect me well"

Summary: Ugliness is a handsomeness of its own kind, because it's seen by some women as a sign of strength and endurance.

When a man touches a woman on the arm, it's seen by the woman as a feature of dominance, and it's attractive to them. For more conservative cultures where social touch between opposite sexes is prohibited, women may view touch negatively though, particularly in public.

Summary: If you want her phone number, touch her lightly on her arm.

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She has phoned you, and is coming to see you in 20 mins. And then you get busy doing something else. She knocks at the door, and even before you could get out of the shower, your roommate opens the door.

She doesn't like it as much, because she expects to see you when the door opens. Seeing someone else, contrary to her expectations, puts her off, a little bit.

Summary: A man should always open the door for his lady himself. It is not only a right, but also a privilege as well as politeness.

Sometimes a woman is mad at you (could be without any reason) and wants to end the relationship. She actually doesn't mean to end the relationship - if she wants to break up, she would break up anyway without declaring.

What does she want when she says "I think we should break up" or "I don't want to talk to you anymore"?

She wants the man to say "Please don't do this because I really love you, and I cannot live without you. Please don't go". This makes her feel better.

Summary: If she is ready to break up, say the three magic words, and ask her to stay.

If she needs something (most likely it's attention) and unable to get it otherwise, she will often use her best weapon. Some women like to bring up an issue to cry about, and some cry without a reason. Irrespective, she likes to burst into tears in front of you. The man melts, and she gets what she wanted.

When a woman cries, a man is expected to pay attention, sympathize (but don't overdo it), and show affection by hugging her.

Summary: When a woman cries, she expects the man to offer his shoulder to cry upon.

Women like to worry. And they feel it's their right. Worrying is an emotional action that leads to several physiological changes (e.g. release of epinephrine and norepinephrine in the blood etc), and it makes the woman feels like a woman.

If a woman says she is worried about you, don't say "stop worrying about me" - She will think you're taking away her right, and it's not good for the relation.

Instead of asking her to stop worrying consider saying something more reassuring: "I know you're concerned about me, but I'll be fine" or something similar. Apart from words, an action item should also be included in this remedy - Call her, and let her know about your whereabouts to keep her worries from building up too high.

Summary: It's a woman's right to worry, so don't stop her from doing so. Instead, just reassure her, and call her several times a day.

Before starting this blog, let me be very clear that this blog in not targeted personally to anyone. People are free to agree/disagree with me, but this blog is written in light mood, and people (especially gals) should be sporty enough to take this as fun.
Another thing I want to mention is that whatever I am blogging, is not 'generalized' for all gals, it is limited for specific gals.
I was just sitting idle, so thought lets glorify some feature of 'problematic gals'. Problematic gals are kinda gals, who can never tolerate to see their boyfriend/spouse in bliss........lol.....Let me discuss few characteristics:-
1. Problematic gals think that they are the most beautiful gals in universe! They would intermittently complain their b'friend that "this guy is making me missed calls", "this guy gives looks at me", "this guy passes remarks on me", "this guy speaks foul to me on phone".......(10% real issue + 90% useless talks)....bla bla bla.......phew! Poor b'friend, initially he takes it very seriously. (How could someone challenge his alpha male authority??).......He gets pissed off.......he is ready to kill..........he is ready to fight world war 3.......What more? The problematic gal reinforces this feeling by saying "Honey, promise me, you wouldn't do anything to him?"
2. Problematic gals think that they are the most photogenic species in this world....Again repeated complains......."I think this guy took my picture from his cellphone"........Poor guy, again to save his kingdom, he can do anything.........Later on he learns two facts.........One, he is spending lotz of energy to save his kingdom for nothing.....Two, he is not alpha male........lol.
3. B'friend is supposed to listen all the shit going on gals family. Father is drunk, cousin is molesting me, had fight with mommy, not feeling good, bla bla bla.........everything.......before b'friend enjoys this, later he feels what the heck? Am I like a punching bag, who is supposed to be on receiver end only? ( I have seen some of my friends, who while listening keep their ear piece far from their ear...........intermittently they say "hu.......ya ya.........ok.........ok........hu........ya")
4. Problematic gals think that their menstrual problems (if any), are the matters of superior most priority.......what if fight is going on between America and Iraq?........they don't care.......B'friend has got to listen her great menstrual saga......"Its coming", "its not coming", "its early", "its delayed", "its painful".........and many more.........initially b'friend enjoys listening this shit. He thinks that by carefully listening and reacting, he is gaining his dream gal's trust and respect........Later this story brings nausea in his mind........."Yuk! do I always have to listen about this shit??".................lol
5. Problematic gals are experts in picking up fight out of nothing. Imagine the wildest thing in your mind, and it is sufficient enough to start a fight. Anything means anything, If you wear a new dress/old dress, grooming/not grooming, listening/not listening, speaking/not speaking, aggressive/polite.........whatever you are, if she wants to pick fight, then she can and she would. Poor guy thinks, "now what I have done wrong?"
6. Problematic gals are again experts in making feel their b'friend, that they are not worthy (this they don't do initially.....before the same b'friend is the best in this world.......This starts later, when she thinks that ok, now the fruit is ripened....lol).........Even if he is intelligent like Einstein, brave like Hercules, handsome like James Bond, devoted like lord Rama, and 'understand' her needs like Sigmund Freud, still she would successfully make him feel that he is good for nothing and not caring enough for her.........lol
7. Problematic gals are good at diverting the issues.......At one moment B'friend is mad on her, and scolding her for something, the next moment he finds himself apologizing for being 'rude',' blunt' and 'hurting' her.......(of course he is attacked by 'water canons' too).........Somehow he saves himself by ending this conversation, and then he thinks "Shit! .....What happened just now? Was it me or her who was supposed to apologize??"...........Dude, its too late by then!..........lol........lol
Anyway, this was just a brief introduction about problematic gals. Those gals who think that they are not problematic, they shouldn't be pissed off after reading this, and those who are pissed off,they need to change, because they are problematic gals!

What's so peculiar about this sentence?

I do not know where family doctors acquired illegibly perplexing handwriting; nevertheless, extraordinary pharmaceutical intellectuality, counterbalancing indecipherability, transcendentalizes intercommunications' incomprehensibleness.


Answer:Each word in the sentence is one letter longer than the word before it!... :)

Women will be mad at you if you don't let them know where you are. Reason? They feel more secure if they can frame a mental picture of your whereabouts. Lack of communication makes them feel insecure, and they'll be pissed off.

Summary: Make two phone calls to your lady every day.

I want to have more fun, but without taking responsibility. I want to be a good man, so I should take more responsibility, even for my fun.

Before I start doing something, I should pause for a moment and think "Shall I be able to take responsibility for my actions in near and remote future? Will the sense of responsibility stay even if things don't go the way I intended?" If the answer is Yes, then I should start the journey. If the answer is no, I should find another way.

"Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody else expects of you, never excuse yourself" - Henry Ward Beecher (1813-1887)